10 ideas to make your marriage shine from a more-than-10-year marriage therapist.

When I was a teen, one of the hit songs of the time was “The Way We Were” by Alan Bergman, Marilyn Bergman and Marvin Hamlisch, sung by Barbra Streisand in a movie of the same name. The lyrics are iconic: “Memories … light the corners of my mind; Misty water-colored memories of the way we were. Scattered pictures of the smiles we left behind. Smiles we gave to one another, for the way we were. Can it be that it was all so simple then? Or has time rewritten every line? If